Friday, October 29, 2010

Strep Cause Tooth Ache

Play the listener in a hospital

In a recent course on decision making, teamwork, conflict, communication, all that happened which caused me were very impressed. The teacher wants to do a show about something that we later learned is called "active listening." Asks a student to tell what made the previous day. Then, as she starts talking, she ostensibly begins to look down, to play with the pen. At the end, he asks what your guinea pig has feelings as he made his narrative. The student does not know what to say, the preofesora explains that he has not been paying attention, and then goes on to explain how a person is actively listening.

I'm not talking here today of the disease of not listening, not really listen, fully understanding the positions and desentrañanado other's feelings. It is a very common virus (what you're telling a person who breaks their mental worlds most inopportune moments.) We hear without listening, we look without seeing, going at full speed, there is little real world beyond our reach. Fortunately, many people who read this blog it seems that so far have been immunized against this virus, but everybody can happen for reasonable cause.

What to me has attracted the attention of the experiment that I have told you before is that the person speaking has barely noticed the reaction of his words. And another issue is that this is less known. I speak of those people who do not observe the listeners, which are impervious to the reactions that his words may cause, do not read the sometimes transparent nonverbal language. To them, your boredom, urgency, fatigue, discomfort, annoyance or offense has no effect. Maybe it's clumsy, self-absorption myopia, insensitivity, ignorance, making them immune to the unmistakable messages they receive. It is a gift of gratitude, as well as the listening, the ability to interpret the effect that causes your audience and moderate, alter, shorten, lengthen or even eliminate the speech you're giving. Fortunately, too, many of my readers also have this gift.

Strep Cause Tooth Ache

Play the listener in a hospital

In a recent course on decision making, teamwork, conflict, communication, all that happened which caused me were very impressed. The teacher wants to do a show about something that we later learned is called "active listening." Asks a student to tell what made the previous day. Then, as she starts talking, she ostensibly begins to look down, to play with the pen. At the end, he asks what your guinea pig has feelings as he made his narrative. The student does not know what to say, the preofesora explains that he has not been paying attention, and then goes on to explain how a person is actively listening.

I'm not talking here today of the disease of not listening, not really listen, fully understanding the positions and desentrañanado other's feelings. It is a very common virus (what you're telling a person who breaks their mental worlds most inopportune moments.) We hear without listening, we look without seeing, going at full speed, there is little real world beyond our reach. Fortunately, many people who read this blog it seems that so far have been immunized against this virus, but everybody can happen for reasonable cause.

What to me has attracted the attention of the experiment that I have told you before is that the person speaking has barely noticed the reaction of his words. And another issue is that this is less known. I speak of those people who do not observe the listeners, which are impervious to the reactions that his words may cause, do not read the sometimes transparent nonverbal language. To them, your boredom, urgency, fatigue, discomfort, annoyance or offense has no effect. Maybe it's clumsy, self-absorption myopia, insensitivity, ignorance, making them immune to the unmistakable messages they receive. It is a gift of gratitude, as well as the listening, the ability to interpret the effect that causes your audience and moderate, alter, shorten, lengthen or even eliminate the speech you're giving. Fortunately, too, many of my readers also have this gift.

Friday, October 8, 2010

Me And My Babysitter Bathe



hospital is a public, shared room, the right to privacy of the patient, take your disease, which sometimes feels as shameful and humiliating, in a hidden and private, is not very important, is the first to depart when it enters into consideration the mass or budgets. Sano even accompanied, are deducted. The old man goes, it looks as ever head down bone injury. He is dressed like many elderly of that era, in a suit and tie, but very humble, not detract from the sense of disarray that transmits, and these costumes, these shoes are touching incident grid memories of a proud humility, a man who knows his place in the world and carries his head high.

His wife, more alert, more active, with little eyes still sizzling the same energy that had to take the clock to pull the car from a family with 4 or 5 children, is the patient. Usually occur in marriages that time this division of roles: the Women are the lung, the decision maker, the sap, the man, timid and taciturn, is the trunk in which everyone is caught.

What makes me tremble with excitement even as I remember, what drives me to be writing this, is when she is, indicates a hollow on his bed, and says, "How are you, handsome?" Sit " . I may remove that term as modern a woman as old: the man accepts the adjective with apparent indifference and sits down, kissing her forehead. She tells him about his health, while resting his hand on his leg. Love at this point is something as unbreakable. I begin to fantasize about this story of love of years, until I realize what is happening.

The man is scared, the petrified by fear. Has not exceeded the terror that has produced a sudden heart attack, hospitalization hasty. And although she is well, and soon return home, followed by altering their own presence in the hospital and the prospect of being alone, without the lung that has always been shining its existence as gray as sublime, and has remained in his head White perhaps forever. She knows, and increases his love and familiarity, even in front of strangers, with a naturalness that confuses a couple of those years, only to comfort, to ensure that you will follow him, that all goes well, that will continue a little further adorable old man his life, his marriage and is stronger than everything that can happen.

Me And My Babysitter Bathe



hospital is a public, shared room, the right to privacy of the patient, take your disease, which sometimes feels as shameful and humiliating, in a hidden and private, is not very important, is the first to depart when it enters into consideration the mass or budgets. Sano even accompanied, are deducted. The old man goes, it looks as ever head down bone injury. He is dressed like many elderly of that era, in a suit and tie, but very humble, not detract from the sense of disarray that transmits, and these costumes, these shoes are touching incident grid memories of a proud humility, a man who knows his place in the world and carries his head high.

His wife, more alert, more active, with little eyes still sizzling the same energy that had to take the clock to pull the car from a family with 4 or 5 children, is the patient. Usually occur in marriages that time this division of roles: the Women are the lung, the decision maker, the sap, the man, timid and taciturn, is the trunk in which everyone is caught.

What makes me tremble with excitement even as I remember, what drives me to be writing this, is when she is, indicates a hollow on his bed, and says, "How are you, handsome?" Sit " . I may remove that term as modern a woman as old: the man accepts the adjective with apparent indifference and sits down, kissing her forehead. She tells him about his health, while resting his hand on his leg. Love at this point is something as unbreakable. I begin to fantasize about this story of love of years, until I realize what is happening.

The man is scared, the petrified by fear. Has not exceeded the terror that has produced a sudden heart attack, hospitalization hasty. And although she is well, and soon return home, followed by altering their own presence in the hospital and the prospect of being alone, without the lung that has always been shining its existence as gray as sublime, and has remained in his head White perhaps forever. She knows, and increases his love and familiarity, even in front of strangers, with a naturalness that confuses a couple of those years, only to comfort, to ensure that you will follow him, that all goes well, that will continue a little further adorable old man his life, his marriage and is stronger than everything that can happen.